Katrina's Birth Story
A friend had used a doula for her son's birth and suggested
that I use one for the birth of my first child. I had wanted my
mother to be with me but she was back home in Canada and unable
to come. I wanted a female to support me and my husband. A doula
seemed like the perfect choice. Having Marcia there for the
birth of our son was the best decision we could have made.
Marcia stayed by my side for the entire labour, helping me with
my breathing and offering constant advice, wisdom and
encouragement. Her presence made me and my husband feel safe and
secure in an otherwise scary situation for first time parents.
The birth involved no medical interference or pain relief, which
I largely believe was due to Marcia's help and guidance.
My husband never felt pushed aside or not involved in the
birthing process, despite the fact that Marcia was always with
me. As labour turned out to be more intense than we could have
imagined, my husband was actually very relieved that Marcia was
there to help me. Marcia went above and beyond my expectations
of a doula. Looking back, I would never have wanted to go
through labour without her. I'm already recommending doulas to
women, even those who aren't expecting yet.
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